The 90s had a lot of good in them but I gotta admit I’m a bit tired of this nostalgic mindset people have about the past.
Sure, a lot of things are not going well today, but at the same time we have made amazing advancements in multiple areas where I’m sure most of you would regret going back to the 90s and not have them.
Advancements in medicine and science as well as social advancements in the form of a better understanding and acceptance of mental health issues. Being gay and trans today is also a lot easier than it was in the 90s. We hold sexual predators more and more responsible for their actions today than we did back then. More people today are aware and concerned about fixing the environment than they were in the 90s where you got to hear things about the ozone layer and then that was it.
Smoking is on its way out. Similar with alcohol. At least in my country. It is less nad less socially acceptable and more and more people turn away from those vices, which is amazing.
In my experience, more and more people raise their kids with respect for the child’s emotional well being. My generation were barely seen as humans when we were children and I see more and more people around my age raising their children with the respect they didn’t receive themselves when they were little. It is bound to create some more robust people in the future who have a healthy sense of self and who believe in themselves.
There are so many good things in the world right now, but if you only look for the bad and start romanticizing a past that wasn’t really as perfect as you think it was, then you’re, in my opinion, living wrong.
It’s okay to appreciate things from the past and miss them, but this “the world was better” bullshit is just very counter productive and in many cases objectively untrue.
100% agree with this. The 90’s were awesome for white males in North America and a few places in Europe born after 1950, and not a ton of other people. The same could be said of the 80’s or the 60’s up to 1973. Just because the Boomers (and then later Millennials) were great at the marketing associated with the entertainment detritus of when they had general periods of feeling awesome about life*, doesn’t mean it was the peak of anything.
Case in point, TWO of the most popular TV shows in the US in the late 80’s/early 90’s were one about living in the 1960’s (Wonder Years) and a show that included a lot of time travel to the 1960’s (Quantum Leap).
To clarify this, Boomers dragged Western culture around on their emotions, so periods where a lot of them hit seminal age ranges (15-20 becoming and adult, and 30-45 when you have career and family and haven’t yet hit midlife crisis point) line up generally with larger periods of nostalgia setting in and being marketable. This is then extrapolated out to Millennials, who unlike Gen X, gobbled up their Boomer training and penchant for nostalgia hard. So the 80’s and 90s were sort of this perfect inflection point of career-oriented Boomers taking the lead and feeling like kinds of the world, then selling us the most brightly-colored plastic crap in the history of humanity, and then Millennials thinking that time, when they were also hitting 15-20, was the peak of human civilization. While the births per year are not quite a bell curve, there’s a range of earlier people in the generation that set the tone of that generation, which people a few years younger often go a long with. So it’s the first 5-10 years of a generation that are setting the trends and tones, and then another 10 years backing them up. Schools, specially high schools and colleges with 4-year cohorts, facilitate this by having the older classes informing the younger classes pre-internet. Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
I think it’s is a bit disingenuous to pretend like Gen X hasn’t also been drowning in member berries. All the 70s and 80s nostalgia that has also been permiating media the past decade is more or less Gen X dreaming of their childhoods. Hell, the birth of the online movie and video game reviews was mostly spear headed by Gen X’ers sitting and screaming in front of their cameras about how this game and that show or movie was either amazing or ruined their childhoods. One even called himself the Nostalgia Critic. I have also heard countless Gen X’ers reminisce about how much better things were when they were young. Especially in more recent years where more and more “back in my day we played outside and didn’t stare at phones all day”-videos get posted to social media.
Gen X is not too good to be down here in the mud with the rest of us nostalgic peasants.
Every generation has a bit of nostalgia for thier childhoods and everybody misses parts of times that have passed and that is fine.
I just don’t like it when it gets to a point where one starts acting like there is absolutely nothing positive or better going on in the current age we live in and that all the good stuff is in the past. That irks the fuck out of me.
The 90s had a lot of good in them but I gotta admit I’m a bit tired of this nostalgic mindset people have about the past.
Sure, a lot of things are not going well today, but at the same time we have made amazing advancements in multiple areas where I’m sure most of you would regret going back to the 90s and not have them.
Advancements in medicine and science as well as social advancements in the form of a better understanding and acceptance of mental health issues. Being gay and trans today is also a lot easier than it was in the 90s. We hold sexual predators more and more responsible for their actions today than we did back then. More people today are aware and concerned about fixing the environment than they were in the 90s where you got to hear things about the ozone layer and then that was it.
Smoking is on its way out. Similar with alcohol. At least in my country. It is less nad less socially acceptable and more and more people turn away from those vices, which is amazing.
In my experience, more and more people raise their kids with respect for the child’s emotional well being. My generation were barely seen as humans when we were children and I see more and more people around my age raising their children with the respect they didn’t receive themselves when they were little. It is bound to create some more robust people in the future who have a healthy sense of self and who believe in themselves.
There are so many good things in the world right now, but if you only look for the bad and start romanticizing a past that wasn’t really as perfect as you think it was, then you’re, in my opinion, living wrong.
It’s okay to appreciate things from the past and miss them, but this “the world was better” bullshit is just very counter productive and in many cases objectively untrue.
100% agree with this. The 90’s were awesome for white males in North America and a few places in Europe born after 1950, and not a ton of other people. The same could be said of the 80’s or the 60’s up to 1973. Just because the Boomers (and then later Millennials) were great at the marketing associated with the entertainment detritus of when they had general periods of feeling awesome about life*, doesn’t mean it was the peak of anything.
Case in point, TWO of the most popular TV shows in the US in the late 80’s/early 90’s were one about living in the 1960’s (Wonder Years) and a show that included a lot of time travel to the 1960’s (Quantum Leap).
I think it’s is a bit disingenuous to pretend like Gen X hasn’t also been drowning in member berries. All the 70s and 80s nostalgia that has also been permiating media the past decade is more or less Gen X dreaming of their childhoods. Hell, the birth of the online movie and video game reviews was mostly spear headed by Gen X’ers sitting and screaming in front of their cameras about how this game and that show or movie was either amazing or ruined their childhoods. One even called himself the Nostalgia Critic. I have also heard countless Gen X’ers reminisce about how much better things were when they were young. Especially in more recent years where more and more “back in my day we played outside and didn’t stare at phones all day”-videos get posted to social media.
Gen X is not too good to be down here in the mud with the rest of us nostalgic peasants.
Every generation has a bit of nostalgia for thier childhoods and everybody misses parts of times that have passed and that is fine.
I just don’t like it when it gets to a point where one starts acting like there is absolutely nothing positive or better going on in the current age we live in and that all the good stuff is in the past. That irks the fuck out of me.