Thales@sh.itjust.works to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days agoWife: I'll just do it myselfsh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square30fedilinkarrow-up1381arrow-down123file-text
arrow-up1358arrow-down1imageWife: I'll just do it myselfsh.itjust.worksThales@sh.itjust.works to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days agomessage-square30fedilinkfile-text
minus-square_stranger_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down1·3 days agoIt’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
minus-squareᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·3 days agoIt was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
minus-square_stranger_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·edit-22 days agoAnyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.
It’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
It was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
Anyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.