Remembering to look for and ignore folks with that telltale indicator has made the fediverse so much more enjoyable.

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    I jumped in .ml by random and it’s crazy how had the hate is. If you find a good intance DM me sir.

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      It’s weird, I hopped off ML due to how much hate other users were giving me, but I never actually experienced anything from the ML users themselves. I did stay off the politics subs, so that’s maybe why, but it was genuinely quite a chill instance for me.

      Anyway I’m on UK now, and people seem to treat me nicer

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          I agree. Whenever there’s a post about .ml users it comes from .world.
          I understand if there’s political differences, but they incessantly try to vilify the whole instance.

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        Early on I poked around ml, and it wasn’t so much hate but more like some really… interesting views on how to organize politically

        It boiled down to “unite the workers of the world and seize the means of production”, but like… That was it. No answer to how to do that, or what to do next

        The most annoying part was honestly just how hard some of them simp for China and Russia, sometimes even North Korea

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          Marxists absolutely have advice on how to organize, the problem is that it’s very regional. Some parties are good, others are horrid, but the basics are to find a good organization local to you and join it. Protesting, reading theory, doing direct action and mutual aid, unionizing and striking, all are good ways to organize.

          None of us “simp” for the PRC or DPRK, and certainly not for the Russian Federation. We support socialist countries and critically support those working against the US empire.

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          Yeah, I have to admit the anti-US sentiment did align nicely with my eurocentric views. But the pro-Russia and pro-China sentiment did not jell with me very well, and was a factor of why I left

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        There’s very little disagreement among .ml users because .ml is so heavily moderated. As an insider, it looks like calm waters all around you. But other instances easily see the dissent getting quashed, and only deal with the .ml users spouting insane comments on non-ml communities.

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        So funny story guys, I was hanging out at a Nazi bar but they weren’t all that bad. In fact, they even bought me some drinks. The real problem was all the people outside the bar that would harass me with comments like, “why are you hanging with Nazis.”

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          Equating communists with Nazis is a form of Holocaust trivialization called “Double Genocide Theory.”

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          So funny story guys, I was minding my own business at literally the main bar downtown, when a bunch of hard-right nutjobs threw gin in my face and called me a nazi saying “don’t you know who owns this bar”. Bitch, I was just having a drink at the first bar in town.

          Anyway, I learned to stay clear of the bar they were asking me to join instead, because who in their right mind joins a bunch of random wackos throwing gin in people’s faces.

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                Oh I have been abused by .ml community many times with their BS and Alts.

                You know who hasn’t lied and treated me like shit? People posting anti .ml memes.

                Get bent with you apologizing nonsense. I also like how you frame yourself as the victim which is typical right wing nonsense.

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                  Go up through this chain, and objectively ask yourself Am I the one who has been lashing out and name calling like a deranged lunatic? Or have I been calm and collected and presented my side in a rational manner?

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                    I just posted an allegory, you are the one who took it personal. I don’t know you from the man in the moon and I have no hard feelings.

                    You haven’t been abused by .ML, good for you. There are lots who have. You do realize how tone-deaf you are I hope.

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        ROFL, About 7 in 10 of my interactions with .ml are either positive or neutral

        The vocal side of hexbear is almost completely unhinged.

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            I mean…they didn’t call “leftist” unhinged, they specified a specific group.

            Hexbear does not equate to all leftist, and leftism does not equate to Hexbear.

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              “Tankie” is just a pejorative for those that uphold socialist countries as legitimate, and oppose the US empire. Communists are not anywhere close to MAGA, and pretending they are is sophistry.

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                  It absolutely is, it’s the McCarthyian vision of a spooky scary communist that wants to gobble up all of the babies. It’s used against Marxists and anti-imperialists to terminate discussion.

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                    Haha so wrong but please keep posting and voting on this post so people can see how tankies really are.

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            Sorry cowbee, youve got no power here. I thought I had you blocked already. Leftist is fine, I draw the line at tankie. Blocked at instigator.

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              I don’t have “power” anywhere. Having issues with Marxists is still generally a bad thing that should be a broken rule.