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  • Sure, but the overall intent holds true. Not just in professional settings, it’s important to have the skill to reframe a negative comment into a positive one.

    This is probably what I would say:

    It sounds like you’ve got everything you need for the meeting. Would it still make sense for me to attend?

    If that’s the case, then I think I’d be more useful handling some other tasks in the meantime. Please keep me updated on the outcome of the meeting




  • Contramuffin@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldIt works too well
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    2 months ago

    In the book, it’s fairly clear that he did kill everyone but only got away with it because 1) nobody can tell anybody else apart because everyone looks the same and 2) everybody is so self-centered that even if they did know a murder took place, they didn’t bother to report it.

    It’s very heavily implied in the book that the landlady covered up Paul Allen’s (and multiple other prostitutes’) murder, presumably to maintain the property value of the apartment. Unfortunately, a lot of the clues don’t translate well into a movie:

    1. The apartment only recently became available to rent
    2. Bateman notes that the paint on the walls is still fresh, barely dried
    3. Bateman notes that there’s a lot of potpourri laid out, as though to cover up a smell
    4. Iirc the furniture was also brand new
    5. The landlady immediately knew who Bateman was and asked him to leave



  • Contramuffin@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldLiterally meme
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    4 months ago

    Antimeme, not BHJ. BHJ involves reinterpreting a meme into something that is not relevant to either the intended meme format or the source material. Basically, intentionally missing the point of the meme

    For instance, a BHJ here might say something like “I’m sad that I ran out of money right before I finished my Terminator costume”




  • Beyond that, it’s not even a social concept. People naturally attribute more weight to their first time doing anything. That’s not a social pressure or a social concept, that’s a logical conclusion of the fact that, till that point in their lives, they have not experienced anything resembling it.

    People remember their first time riding a bicycle, their first time leaving home, their first job, etc. Are all of these social constructs too?