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  • kinther@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldBe Goonin'
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    12 days ago

    I think that in a society like ours where sex is shamed by some groups, there is absolutely a need to break that paradigm and make sex a positive thing. You won’t find me arguing puritan values.

    What I stated is that some people -do- struggle to control themselves. Masterbation by itself is not problematic, but based on what I’ve read, superstimuli like pornography can dampen the response to normal stimulus (eg. real sex). Our brains are complicated and neuroscience is not well understood in this area.

    I’d encourage you to read some of the scientific papers linked on the site and make your own conclusions. I’ve also read papers from the opposite perspective. Both make very good points.






  • I am more of a hobbyist when it comes to running software on Linux. That said, I usually end up being the guy who installs and manages software on work Linux servers, writes Ansible scripts to standardize configs, and troubleshoot when things dont work. Im not as advanced as you are, but got my fair share of pre-systemd headaches… so yeah, I completely agree with you.